Press the play button below to see a video from Dry at Night author, Emma Sargent:
An open letter from a parent who knows what you are going through… and has the answer.
Dear Parent,
Firstly, I didn’t believe anything would work for my son, Tom. I didn’t think anything would work, because nothing had worked for 5 years. Here he was at 10 years old – still not dry and with no end in sight.
Secondly, why would you believe that this was any different to all of the other “How to stop bed wetting” stuff on the internet?
There’s a lot I can tell you about me, how I came to put this system together, and what I know it will do for you; however, the bottom line is that you will have to believe that I’m not another person trying to flog you a book of tips written by someone else that may or may not work. I will do my very best to demonstrate that I am who I say I am and that I truly mean what I say.
I think if I were you, the first question I would want answered is “Who would spend their time putting together a step by step process to end bed wetting?”
I’ll tell you who:
Someone who spent 5 years trying to find a solution and then paid £2,173 in desperation.
Yes, I really did. And I don’t mind admitting that we absolutely could not afford to spend that much, but I kept on trying to convince myself that the alternative was just too awful and we couldn’t go on.
You already know, because you wouldn’t be here if you didn’t, that having a child who is in every other respect “normal” (whatever that means) and wets the bed is distressing and confusing. There is so much literature about bedwetting being the effect of low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and psychological trauma that you wonder where you are going wrong. As an author of two published parenting books, I am extremely sensitive about where I am going wrong as a parent, and I am certainly not perfect, but I am very confident that neither of my children has suffered psychological damage. (By the way, psychological damage does cause bedwetting in a tiny minority of cases, and they are usually children who develop what is known as ‘secondary enuresis’ where they have been dry and then start to wet again.)
Anyway, the point is that parents of bedwetting children will try anything, so what astounds and infuriates me is that I felt I had to pay such an enormous sum of money to sort it out without resorting to drugs.
Why don’t doctors know what works?
Why are the charity-based centres so vague in their advice?
I’m sure they do know what works, but they don’t seem to be letting us in on the secret!
So what was the result of spending £2173?
It WORKED!Happy Days!
I paid a specialist private clinic to cure my son’s bedwetting. There is no doubt that these specialist clinics are very good and if you have a complex wetting problem I’m sure that it would be good to get the individual help that they provide. But there are hundreds of thousands of children who do not have complex problems, they just haven’t grown out of bed wetting yet (and we don’t want to trust to luck that they will). Despite being thrilled that Tom was now dry, I was left feeling a bit fed up about parting with so much money and having the process drip-fed to me over many drawn-out months.
So, I decided to do my own research, find out what works and why, and put it together in a comprehensive way that you will not find elsewhere, and for a fraction of the price.
I dug really deep, read scientific papers and unravelled the latest research. It all points to one way of curing bedwetting that truly is not rocket science, and yet every day thousands of children are needlessly suffering with the misery and embarrassment of wet beds or being given horrible drugs to take.
I just don’t think that it’s right for me to keep the information to myself now that I know it, and I know how it can help you.
Remember that my son had never been dry for more than a couple of nights and for most of his life he was soaking every single night. We tried EVERYTHING as you will see when you read on but first, I really don’t want to sell you the wrong thing and waste your money so before you continue reading, I want to make sure that your child is suitable for this step by step formula to stop bedwetting:
If you answer yes to the statements below, then this system is for you:
My child has never been dry at night
My child has only ever been dry for a few nights at a time
My child consistently wets the bed 3 or more nights a week
My child has good bladder and bowel control in the day
If your child has more serious day-time symptoms too, then it is important to see a doctor to rule out medical problems.
Of course, it’s not only the bedwetting child who suffers. I wonder if you are, like I was:
Fed up with washing sheets or paying for pull-ups?
Tired of waiting for your child to “grow out of it?”
Exasperated from trying so many different “cures”
Searching for something that will work without drugs and hospital tests?
Well, you can relax. Your search is over!
Hi Emma,
My son is going so well! He has just turned 7 and used to be drenched most nights. So we started the alarm on 10 May. The first two nights were wet, then we had an “oops”, then we had 4 dry nights, sleeping through the night in a row. I can’t believe how quickly we have got these results. We had an “oops” last night, but it was only a little bit and he was up in a flash to turn the alarm off. We both feel so encouraged. I’m so glad I trawled the internet one more time and found your system! Thank you so much.
- Fleur Baker, Auckland, New Zealand
Hi Emma,
We are all so very happy with your programme; our son has 2 months of completely dry nights and is totally over the moon, so are we. We honestly never thought we would be here ever!! After 13 hard years, he has been to sleep overs, and we are going on holiday to Spain next week (without the nappy pants!!) Yeppeee! I am totally happy to write on your website how fantastic your advice has been and how much support you have given us – you are a star, advising us and supporting us. The doctors were totally useless, telling us to not let him drink after 4pm (how impossible was that) and how was he ever going to learn how to control his bladder! Many many kind regards.
- Mel Paul, Bristol, UK
Hi Emma,
George has been dry for three weeks now and we are about to try phase 3. I am so grateful to you for this programme and all your advice – I never thought we would get here and it is really exciting to think those bad old days are behind us. Thank you!
- Lowri Story, London, UK
Dear Emma,
I would just like to let you know that our daughter has now stopped wetting the bed. She has been dry for about 9 weeks! Thanks for a great programme and for you encouraging emails. We will be starting with our son in the near future and will keep you in touch on his progress.
Kind regards, Chris Gaynor, Banbury, UK
Hi Emma!
I wanted to write and say thank you. I don’t know if you’ll remember me but I phoned you some weeks ago and got quite distressed about my son, Oliver’s, bedwetting. Well after only about a month and a half we have finished Stage 2 and he is pretty much going through the night and staying dry, without getting up for the loo in the night!
Your programme is amazing! We’re so pleased at how quickly Oliver has progressed. Oliver has even had a sleepover both at home and a friend’s house and he stayed dry. Oliver is also very pleased with himself and feels very grown up not having to wear pull ups. Also, I’m a lot more relaxed about all of it.
We can’t say thank you enough to you and all your hardwork in your research and ideas.
I feel inspired like you that there are so many parents out there that stress about this and your programme is easy to follow yet effective. It would save us all a of time (and money!) if it was widely recognised. I have also been raving about it to friends that are not worried yet, but beginning to wonder if they should intervene to help their lttle ones. Everyone I tell is very impressed!
I hope you get the recognition you deserve for this and wish you all the best for the future.
- Sarah Lambert, Oliver and family, Felsted, Essex, UK
Dear Emma,
It was so lovely to meet you yesterday and to be able to thank you in person for changing my son’s life and therefore inevitably mine, by the Dry at Night manual.
Nobody, unless they’ve experienced the utter despair of watching their child struggle to have a dry night, can appreciate how fantastic it is to be cured.
To be relieved of the feeling of utter failure is unbelievably wonderful. My son is a different boy now. The bedwetting would permeate all areas of his life (not just the sheets!). No matter how brilliant he was at school or on the football field, he would still have that feeling of being ‘not good enough’ purely because he couldn’t control his bladder at night.
‘Dry at Night’ has completely changed all that. We followed the ‘rules’ to the letter and treated it like a project to complete (hoping in my heart to succeed within 5 months (before his 10th birthday)). He enthusiastically took responsibility of drinking the right amount of liquid and timing to the second how long he could hold it in. I bought an alarm that was quite expensive (but, as he said, he would pay over £1000 to be cured) and therefore unobtrusive and comfortable to sleep with. When there were setbacks (a wet night), instead of feeling a failure, he felt it part of the course which he hadn’t yet completed. When he did complete the course (happily a month before his 10th birthday), he felt he could conquer anything … and so he can!
I cannot speak more highly of the way your teaching approaches this debilitating condition. I cannot thank you enough for your instrumental help in freeing him of the embarrassment and discomfort of being a bedwetter. On a personal note I would also like to thank you for bringing us closer together. Due to the teamwork approach to the problem, he felt strongly that I was with him all the way and with the charts (and chats) gave him daily proof that all I want is for him to be happy. Which is what we all want for all of our children!
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I think you’re brilliant!!
With much love, Diana
Hi Emma,
Thank you for your email, and YES, Theo has pretty much conquered the bed wetting! I have been holding off telling you as I have wanted to wait until I was sure things were really good. It has taken about 6 months to get where we are now and we have had about 9 weeks of dry beds with only 2 accidents! His life has gone from strength to strength and so has mine! We still fill in your form every night, but he has been without the alarm now for a week and so far so good! We are now testing the bladder with a bowl of cereal at night-time and he can manage. I am now tackling my other son who is 6.
The alarm is a complete revelation and I think your book deserves some major recognition.
Thank you for all your advice – life is most certainly brighter for us all!
- Emily-Jane Taylor, Northampton, Wiltshire, UK
Hi Emma,
This is a good news email.
Our Jaz is dry EVERY NIGHT. She has been on holidays and had sleepovers for the first time without worrying! Life’s a breeze now!
Our program began 30 August 2009 and by 16 December 2009, she was completely dry. She was so happy to have her 11th birthday and be dry.
I have recommended your site and method to others – I’m sure you will be hearing from them. Thank you so very much.
- Joce, Jaz and family, Darwin River, Australia
Hi Emma,
We just wanted to let you know how much your system has helped us and our 7.5 year old son. We have never had a dry night in the last 7 years so when I came across you on the internet I was somewhat doubtful. However, we have been using our alarm and doing exercises for the last two weeks now and we have already had 3 dry nights! We can’t quite believe it, especially as the first few nights felt like we had a new born again.
We know we are not out of the woods yet but we all (including our son) feel excited and delighted with the progress. It’s good to have genuine people selling genuine products.
Thanks so much for your advice and support!
Best wishes.
- Rebecca Kerner
Hi Emma,
Thank you, thank you, thank you! We are now nearly 3 weeks after finishing the programme with no wet nights. I have been almost too scared to tempt fate by emailing you to say how successful the programme has been for us.
My son, Jack, is 6 years old and prior to the treatment we had reached a stage of being lucky if we had one dry night a week. Like many others I had not found the health professionals very supportive with the main advice being to get him to drink more during the day to stretch his bladder and getting him to drink juice rather than milk at bedtime?! All this did was move us from one/two dry nights a week to one/two dry nights a month. Jack, however, did not wake with the wetness and seemed surprisingly to be able to sleep well through it.
We began your programme with a little trepidation expecting to be up and down several times a night for weeks when the alarm went off. As it was, this happened for about 3 nights only before the results became apparent and Jack was sleeping through (although waking earlier than previously) without setting the alarm off at all.
We are now all delighted and have fingers crossed that it will last. Jack seems much less tired in the day now; even though the wetness did not wake him before, his quality of sleep seems to have improved.
Thank you for your help and advice.
- Helen Stones
Hi Emma,
Our daughter Rebecca is 10 years old and has had only short periods of dryness.She used to go to sleepovers and stay awake all night but on the last occasion she fell asleep and wet the bed at a friend’s house. I downloaded your system and we read it together.
Rebecca has been dry for the last 5 weeks except for 1 night. She has even gone a couple of nights without the alarm. We still need to attempt the final 2 phases of the process, i.e., 2 weeks without the alarm then the late night drinking stage.
Nevertheless, life is so much better for all of us and I am sure we have finally beaten this thing – no thanks to the medical profession and all thanks to you. I am now reading your ‘Brilliant Parent’ book in the hope that I can improve my relationship with Rebecca’s 13 year-old brother. Many, many thanks!
- Phil Taylor, UK
Hi Emma,
Firstly, thank you so much for sharing your experience and research with me. I feel in my heart this is THE ONE! We are already 12 days dry (up once each night) and Jaz (10) is very excited to be approaching 14 days. We’ve come so far from being wet 3 times a night. Her confidence is booming! We’ve kept the motivation on standby – so far she’s focused and self-motivated but we are ready to prop her up if she needs it.
Thanks so much for your wonderful program!!!!!
- Joce Forwood, Darwin, Australia
Hi Emma,
Just to let you know last night was two weeks (14 days) dry – Yay!! Took him to the doctor about three weeks ago and mentioned to the doc about what we were doing. She informed me she very much doubted it would work and it was a ‘time’ thing. Well, I think this experience has proved her wrong, yet again.
My son goes on camp in early December and is now keen as, whereas before he wanted to stay home. We now have started to stay at friend’s places (who have kids) and go away; you don’t realise how limiting it can be, especially when the kids are so embarrassed by it and don’t want anyone to know. Many thanks for all you information and encouragement.
- Esther, New Zealand
Hi Emma,
My son Tom is now dry at night. He recently went on a ski trip with my husband and he was very nervous about wetting the bed, but he made it through with no problems. It has given him so much more confidence. Thank you again for helping our family.
- Donna Waldeck, UK
Dear Emma,
We have had almost 100% success already and are very happy. Thank you so much for all your tips and for your continued support.
- Katrina and Family (A very happy Aussie family!!)
Thank you so much for putting all this together. It was very easy to follow and we got results more quickly than we dared to imagine. Finally, there’s a step-by-step system that makes sense and has research to back it up.
It is so clearly explained and incorporates both the emotional and physical aspects of getting dry. Best of all, it’s personal–written from the heart–and you clearly KNOW what you are talking about. Your empathy and expertise shine through.
- Karen Moxom, Hertfordshire, UK
Hi Emma,
Just thought I’d tell you the good news: Lottie has completed her first 2 dry weeks – hurrah!!! She is SO pleased. She is lovely the way she talks about it all, she refers to you as though she knows you, eg “We have to do what Emma says, don’t we Mama?” & “Emma says I have to wear the alarm so I better had.” I think being able to associate the process with someone outside our close 2 person unit has really helped her. It stops her feeling it is just something else I am asking her to do!
My social worker is most impressed with the progress Charlotte has made & has asked for the details of your system, so I have directed her to your website, well both websites. So I am spreading the word.
- Jane Lewis, UK
Hi Emma,
My daughter has successfully completed all stages of the programme and has been 100% dry now for over 4 weeks. She took to the programme immediately, only bedwetting about 5 times in the first week.
We are both over the moon and I can’t thank you enough! It has been life changing and I would highly recommend it to anyone.
- Jo Shepherd, Cheshire, UK
What We Tried…
Lifting him when we came to bed
Night-time alarm
Night-time pants
No night-time pants
Star charts
Restricting fluids after a certain time
Not restricting fluids
Restricting certain types of fluids
Testing his diet
Hypnosis Homeopathy
Cranial osteopathy
Kinesiology Past life regression!
And None of These Methods Worked!
So, you can see that we fall into the category of ‘people who try anything’. We also, of course, went to the doctor who told us how common it is (comforting but not helpful), and then said these words:
“Don’t worry; he’ll grow out of it. And if he doesn’t, there are drugs.”
Great!
Everybody I speak to has had the same response. Have you?
I looked up the side-effects of the drugs and decided that there was NO WAY we would go down that route. I understand that there are drugs that have few side-effects, but their success rate at curing the bedwetting is poor, once the child stops taking them. In fact, doctors agree that they are a short term measure that doesn’t work in the long-term.
I think it is absolutely wrong that parents are offered drugs (that don’t have a good success rate) before they try a behavioural approach which has a very good success rate. But of course, you know why we are not given solutions that work – they take time to explain and need good support and co-operation for parents. There may be parents who don’t want to support their children and make a bit of an effort to get rid of this horrible problem, but I suspect that if you are still with me, you are not one of them.
This is not a quick fix but you will get results remarkably quickly if you follow the instructions carefully.
You also need to be aware that in order to be successful you will need to use a bedwetting alarm. You know that we tried an alarm which didn’t work so why am I recommending one now? What I now know is that although we followed the instructions, we didn’t use it as effectively as we could, and we gave up too easily when it didn’t work. Now I know how to use it properly and set it up for success. Even without extra guidance, alarms have by far the highest success rate amongst treatments available. So – yes – you do need a bedwetting alarm in my system and I have included information about alarms and how to get hold of the right one for you quickly and easily.
I have put together a system of treatment using all the effective strategies that I discovered in my search, and added some valuable expertise from the world of coaching.
Dry At Night is my E-System available for immediate download and:
Is a step by step, easy to follow process that treats all possible causes at the same time
Teaches you how to use an alarm differently to get excellent results
Includes record charts, progress charts, quick reference instructions and exercises
Gives you everything you need to know about coaching, supporting and motivating your child towards success
Answers all your questions
Gives you ways to make it last and stay dry forever!
Dry At Night Includes:
The Facts About Bed Wetting
The 6 Key Causes of Bed Wetting and How They Combine
The Myths of Bed Wetting
Why Some Treatments Don’t Work
How to Prepare for Success
How to Deal with the Psychological Effects
How to Be Supportive
How to Motivate Your Child
How to Choose an Alarm
What to Do in the Night
What Improvements You Will See
Your Questions Answered
How to Handle Set Backs
How To Make it Last: Staying Dry Forever
Record Sheets
PLUS…
Step-by-Step Instructions to Stop Bed Wetting
Record Sheets
Quick Reference Instructions
Progress Charts
If you are still not sure whether to order “Dry at Night” or not, you may be interested to know that some of the other side effects of curing the bedwetting. I discovered that most bedwetters have disturbed nights even if they don’t actually wake up, and therefore suffer from these effects too. We were surprised to find that some of our son’s everyday behavior was due to his bedwetting.
Does your child:
Get easily distracted at school?
Find it difficult to get up in the morning?
Take a long time until they are alert in the morning?
Find it difficult to concentrate?
Need a lot of sleep?
Get moody, especially at breakfast time?
Some other side effects of curing the bedwetting are the side effects that you would expect to find in a child who was suddenly sleeping properly:
More alert
Less easily distracted
More able to concentrate
Better engagement in tasks
Nicer to be around
Surprisingly, needs less sleep!
Is there a downside to this? Yes, there is: this is not a quick fix. If you are easily put off by having to be persistent, then this is not for you. You will need to be committed to helping your child, although if you are still reading, you already are. It will mean disturbed nights in the short term for you as well as them. It will take commitment from the whole family to make it work. So, be prepared to before you buy the “Dry at Night” E-System.
If you want a child who is:
Confident to stay with friends
More alert in the mornings
Ready to engage at school
Dry At Night is a downloadable E-System so you can start immediately. Everything you need will be delivered within minutes after your purchase straight into your email!
What’s it worth to you to get your child dry?
Remember I paid £2,173 and have put this together because I feel so strongly that people shouldn’t be in a position where they are practically forced to spend a lot of money. All I care about is that I don’t keep this information to myself. That’s why I am selling this valuable system at such a ridiculously low price. I am sure that you will have the same success as I did for a FRACTION of the cost if you follow my instructions.
I really want you to succeed, but if you think the system isn’t for you, I will give you your money back at anytime. I’ll also offer you a personal coaching session if you are having problems but would still like to keep going!
MY OFFER TO YOU As you must know by now, I really want you to try this system because I am very confident that you will have success. Here’s my proposal to you:
You can try it for JUST £1 for 7 days, download it today and start straight away. If you like it, do nothing and I will charge you three monthly payments of £17. If you don’t like it, just email me, I won’t charge you AND you can still keep the product!
TRY IT FOR £1 TODAY AND GET THESE FREE BONUSES!
Free Bonus # 1
Email support from Emma, author of Dry at Night. If you have questions as you go along and need reassurance or guidance, you can email me and I will respond quickly.
Value £150
Free Bonus # 1
A confidence-building hypnosis audio especially designed for bedwetting children (immediately available for download).
Value £29
Free Bonus # 2
E-coaching tips weekly, to keep you motivated, delivered straight to your email inbox.
Value £59
Total Value = £238!
Emma’s Risk-Free
“Just Go For It!” 100% Money Back Guarantee
In fact, I am so sure that I am prepared to offer a 100% money back guarantee if you don’t.
That’s right – I really want you to succeed and I will reimburse your investment if you have followed my step by step guide and have not ended your child’s bedwetting or if you read it and think it’s not for you.
Good Luck! Here’s to a dry future!
Emma Sargent, Author
PS. Not only will your child be so much happier, just think of all the financial savings you will make when your child is dry too. This system is only the cost of a month’s worth of pull-ups!
PPS. You can start thinking about your next family holiday with anxiety-free nights!! What a relief that is!
PPPS. Remember my money-back guarantee: If you have followed the step-by-step guide and do not feel you are making progress after 90 days of persevering, I will give you your money back, no questions asked.
About Emma Sargent – Emma is a coach, trainer, and author of two other parenting books, Flying Start and Brilliant Parent. Emma has spent the last fifteen years working with both corporate and private clients, including children and families. She has acquired a reputation internationally as an extremely knowledgeable, effective, and inspirational speaker. She has a degree in psychology from Southampton University and is a certified trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). She runs her own company, The Extraordinary Coaching Company, with her husband Tim Fearon.
